“A lot of videos and tapes”: Jennifer Lopez’s Ex Assistant Spills Secrets That Will DESTROY Her Career | HO
Jennifer Lopez’s former assistant has spilled shocking secrets that could ruin her career. From behind-the-scenes chaos to jaw-dropping revelations, these claims expose a side of J.Lo the public has never seen.
Jennifer Lopez, or JLo, has long been admired for her impressive career as a singer, actress, and businesswoman. However, behind the glitz and glamour of her public persona, there have been numerous allegations and incidents that have raised eyebrows about her treatment of people within her inner circle.
These include claims of mistreatment toward staff members, scandalous behavior, and some shocking behind-the-scenes stories. One of the most notable leaks came from Gilly Liar, a former assistant of Jennifer Lopez, whose revelations cast a shadow over the singer’s carefully curated image.
This reportedly caused Gilly to quit her position. One particularly troubling detail was that Casper Smart insisted that JLo’s staff call him “Mr. Smart” and even demanded Gilly fetch drinks for him. The fact that Jennifer Lopez allegedly allowed such behavior to persist indicates a troubling side to the star’s otherwise polished image.
This account, if true, paints a picture of a woman who tolerates disrespectful behavior from her inner circle, and it’s not the only example of JLo treating her employees poorly.
Another shocking incident that revealed the darker side of JLo’s character occurred when she allegedly fired her longtime makeup artist, Scott Barnes, under questionable circumstances. Barnes had worked with Lopez for years and was responsible for creating her signature “glow” look that became iconic in the early 2000s.
However, when rumors leaked about Lopez’s secret wedding plans to Marc Anthony, Scott Barnes was accused of being the source of the leak, despite there being no evidence to support this claim.
JLo’s team quickly moved to isolate Barnes. He claimed that after being wrongly accused, he was shunned by the entire team, with no one speaking to him. According to Barnes, it was as if he had contracted some form of social disease. It wasn’t until much later that the truth came out: Barnes was not responsible for the wedding leak.

When the misunderstanding was cleared, JLo reportedly called Barnes to clear the air, but he claimed there was no direct apology from her. This incident highlighted the harsh reality of working with Lopez, where loyalty and truth appeared to play second fiddle to managing her image and reputation.
Another controversial topic that has emerged regarding Jennifer Lopez is her past relationship with music mogul Sean “Diddy” Combs. Elon Musk, in a recent appearance on The Joe Rogan Experience, weighed in on JLo’s criticism of the newly elected president and her remarks about Puerto Ricans.
Musk brought up Lopez’s history with Diddy, pointing out how the singer had remained largely silent when it came to the allegations surrounding Diddy’s infamous parties and his criminal activities. This silence led many to speculate whether Lopez had a deeper involvement in those circles than she let on.
One of Lopez’s ex-husbands, Ojani Noa, also claimed that Jennifer Lopez was aware of Diddy’s “freak-off” parties that were allegedly linked to criminal activities.
However, Lopez has never publicly commented on these accusations. When asked about Diddy in 2024, Lopez reportedly walked out of an autograph signing when fans inquired about the matter, reinforcing the idea that she was keen to avoid discussing her past with the music mogul.
When it came to the upbringing of her twins with Marc Anthony, JLo’s treatment of staff seemed to be equally troubling. Sources revealed that Jennifer Lopez hired a nanny who was required to work 16-hour days, seven days a week, looking after her twins.
The schedule was so grueling that the nanny, unable to handle the long hours without breaks, left after only a week. It’s said that JLo’s expectations were excessively high and unreasonable for anyone tasked with the demanding job of caring for her children.
In addition to mistreating her staff and making unrealistic demands on nannies, Jennifer Lopez was also allegedly very strict with her personal drivers. According to sources, JLo had an extreme rule that her drivers were not allowed to make eye contact with her or speak to her unless explicitly instructed to do so.
Former employees have shared stories of how JLo’s drivers were not allowed to look at her through the rearview mirror, with any form of eye contact being met with an outburst. One former driver, Hakob Menoian, claimed that he was forced to leave his job after being demoted and was later involved in a legal dispute with Lopez over breach of contract and wrongful termination. The situation escalated to the point where Menoian filed a lawsuit against Lopez and her team.
Beyond the mistreatment of her staff, Jennifer Lopez’s alleged snobbery towards ordinary service workers has also made headlines. Multiple sources, including flight attendants and hotel staff, have shared accounts of how Lopez refuses to speak to them directly.
One flight attendant revealed that she was ignored when offering JLo a drink, with Lopez only communicating through her assistant. Another source revealed that Jennifer Lopez was so particular about eye contact that if any “small, unimportant” people looked at her or spoke to her, she would retaliate by getting them fired.
One of the most infamous controversies surrounding Jennifer Lopez was her performance for the president of Turkmenistan, Gurbanguly Berdimuhamedow, in 2013. JLo performed at a private concert for the dictator, despite his government being accused of widespread human rights abuses.
Public outcry over Lopez’s decision to perform for such a controversial figure led to significant backlash, with critics accusing her of turning a blind eye to the human rights violations occurring in the country. JLo’s team, in an attempt to deflect criticism, claimed that the event was not government-sponsored, but the backlash was nonetheless strong.
Lastly, it was reported by one of JLo’s backup singers, Julia Wang, that the singer was extremely harsh and even cruel toward her backup singers, particularly if they were “pretty” or “Latina.”
Wang claimed that Lopez’s attitude toward her backup singers was nothing short of mean, with the singer refusing to even acknowledge their presence during rehearsals, except for an occasional eye roll or scoff. Wang further claimed that Lopez would change her demeanor when men were present, treating women poorly out of jealousy and viewing them as competition.
Jennifer Lopez has built a reputation as one of the most successful and influential stars in Hollywood, but recent revelations from former employees and associates paint a very different picture of the star behind the scenes. Whether it’s mistreating staff, turning a blind eye to scandalous behavior, or engaging in questionable business decisions, these leaks from her ex-assistants and other insiders shed light on a side of JLo that fans may not be familiar with.
While JLo has largely remained silent on many of the allegations, the leaked stories continue to erode her carefully crafted image, leaving many to wonder if her career will ever recover from the fallout. Only time will tell whether these revelations will significantly impact her reputation and future endeavors in the entertainment industry.