Kourtney Kardashian and Travis Barker have quickly become one of Hollywood’s most talked-about couples. From their whirlwind romance to their over-the-top PDA moments, they’ve certainly made their mark in the celebrity world. But while many fans admire their passionate connection, a growing number of people are starting to raise concerns about the dynamics of their relationship. Some are questioning whether Travis Barker is exerting too much influence on Kourtney, accusing him of being controlling, particularly when it comes to decisions about their personal lives, public image, and even their children.

The Controversial Baby Name: Rocky 13

One of the first signs that something might be off with the couple’s dynamic came with the announcement of the name they chose for their baby boy. When Travis and Kourtney revealed that they had named their son “Rocky 13,” fans were immediately divided. While some thought the name was cool and unique, others saw it as a red flag.

Travis, who has been vocal about his love for the number 13 (calling it “the greatest number”), said that “Rocky” was inspired by his favorite musician, Rocky George, the guitarist for Suicidal Tendencies. While these may be meaningful choices for Travis, some fans were quick to point out that the name seemed more reflective of Travis’s personal tastes rather than a joint decision that incorporated Kourtney’s wishes.

Some even went so far as to argue that the choice of the name “Rocky 13” felt more like a move to reinforce Travis’s image and identity than to honor Kourtney’s style or preferences. “Travis is clearly calling the shots,” one Reddit user commented, adding that it was another example of the drummer imposing his interests on his partner.

The choice of “13” as a middle name, in particular, left many scratching their heads. For many, it felt more like a “quirky” decision for a pet than for a child. Still, Travis defended the name, insisting it had personal significance to him, though Kourtney’s input remained unclear. This led many fans to wonder: Is Kourtney truly on board with these decisions, or is she simply going along with Travis’s whims?

The Shift in Kourtney’s Style and Identity

Beyond the baby name, there have been other signs that suggest Travis might be steering Kourtney’s life and image. Since they began dating, Kourtney has undergone a noticeable style transformation. Gone are the classic, minimalist outfits that once defined her look; instead, she’s embraced a more edgy, rock-inspired wardrobe that mirrors Travis’s punk-rock persona.

While some might argue that this new style is an expression of Kourtney embracing a different side of herself, others believe it points to a deeper shift in her identity, one that seems heavily influenced by Travis. From her maternity photos to her everyday outfits, Kourtney has adopted a style much more aligned with Travis’s tattoos, leather jackets, and gothic aesthetic. While it’s not unusual for couples to influence each other’s fashion choices, some fans feel that Kourtney’s transformation has been too dramatic and too one-sided, leaning almost entirely toward Travis’s preferences.

Could Kourtney’s new look be a result of self-discovery, or is it more about trying to please her partner? The question remains.

PDA and the Discomfort of Her Children

Another issue that has sparked concern is the couple’s public displays of affection (PDA), particularly in front of Kourtney’s children. On The Kardashians, it’s clear that Kourtney and Travis are not shy about showing their affection for one another—often engaging in kissing, cuddling, and hand-holding in public. While PDA isn’t necessarily a problem in itself, Kourtney’s daughter, Penelope, has expressed how uncomfortable it makes her feel.

In multiple episodes of the show, Penelope has openly stated that she feels awkward when her mom and Travis show too much affection around her. Despite Penelope’s discomfort, the couple continues to display their affection in public, which has led to further concerns about Travis’s influence on Kourtney. Some fans worry that Travis is pushing Kourtney to prioritize their relationship over the emotional well-being of her children, particularly in situations where it seems like her kids are uncomfortable.

As one fan put it on social media, “It’s one thing to be affectionate with your partner, but when your kids repeatedly ask you to stop, it becomes disrespectful. It’s almost like Travis doesn’t respect Kourtney’s role as a mom.” There have even been whispers that Kourtney’s older children—particularly Mason and Penelope—are less than thrilled with Travis’s presence in their lives. Some fans have speculated that this tension could even be a factor in the Kardashian kids spending more time with their father, Scott Disick.

The Wedding Dress Drama

The couple’s wedding also raised some eyebrows. During an episode of The Kardashians, Travis repeatedly asked Kourtney how “sexy” her wedding dress was. At one point, he pressed her for details about how revealing or alluring the dress would be, much to Kourtney’s discomfort. She responded by saying, “I’m not telling you,” but Travis persisted, assuring her that her wedding dress would be “sexy enough.”

For many fans, this exchange felt a bit objectifying, as Travis seemed more concerned with the physical appeal of the dress than the emotional significance of their union. While Kourtney seemed to brush off the conversation, many viewers were left wondering if Travis’s focus on Kourtney’s appearance and his continued questioning of her dress choices was a sign of deeper control issues in their relationship.

Is Travis Truly Controlling Kourtney?

While there is no definitive evidence that Travis is intentionally trying to control Kourtney, the growing list of incidents that have raised eyebrows certainly suggests that there might be an imbalance in their relationship dynamic. From the baby name to the style changes and the PDA discomfort, many fans are left wondering if Kourtney is truly being herself—or if she’s simply adapting to a life shaped by Travis.

It’s important to remember that relationships evolve, and it’s not uncommon for couples to influence each other’s lives. However, there’s a fine line between supporting your partner and exerting control over them. As Kourtney and Travis continue to share their lives with the public, only time will tell if these concerns about control are legitimate or simply a case of fans overthinking a celebrity relationship.

What do you think? Is Travis Barker controlling Kourtney Kardashian, or is he simply encouraging her to embrace a new version of herself? Let us know your thoughts in the comments below!