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Now, let’s get into the real talk. Today, Unc and Ocho are opening up about something a lot of NFL players struggle with: knowing when it’s time to walk away from the game. Retirement is one of those moments that every athlete has to face, and for some, it’s harder to accept than for others. But both Unc and Ocho have lived it, and in this episode, they break down when they knew their careers were over.

Unc: The Moment of Realization

You know, when you’ve been in the NFL for as long as I have, it’s hard to come to terms with the idea that you’re not the same player you once were. But I’ll tell you, it gets to a point where you start feeling it. You can feel your body slowing down, and mentally, you start to see it, too. That’s when you know it’s time.

I remember one moment clearly. I was watching old practice tapes of myself, and I thought, “Man, why am I moving so slow?” And then it hit me—I looked up and realized that slow guy on the screen was me. I was in my 13th year in the league, and I had just had one of my best games yet, breaking the record for most receiving yards in a game by a tight end. It felt good—heck, it felt amazing! But the next season, I could tell my body wasn’t quite the same. I still had it in my head—I still wanted to dominate, I still thought I could put up 100 yards a game like I used to—but my body was telling me something different.

That’s the hardest part: accepting the fact that your mind still thinks you’re in your prime, but your body just can’t follow through. It’s like your mind is telling you, “You’ve got this,” but your legs, your back, and your joints are saying, “Nah, fam, it’s time to hang it up.”

Ocho: The Power of Self-Honesty

Man, for me, it was all about being honest with myself. I knew when I couldn’t give it to them week after week like I used to. I remember, back in the day, I could give you 100, 150 yards game after game, season after season. But as I got older, it wasn’t happening the same way. I’d have a big game, but then the next week? It’d be 30 yards, 40 yards. And you start to wonder, “Is this the new normal?”

I also noticed that I didn’t have the same balance anymore. When I was younger, I could take a hit, stumble, and still get a first down. But as I got older, I’d stumble and go down, and it wasn’t the same. When you start seeing things like that on film, you can’t lie to yourself.

It’s one thing to say you’re still the guy, but when you watch the tape and see you’re not quite moving like you used to, you have to admit it. That was my wake-up call. I remember a few years before I retired, I started having those days where I’d watch the film and think, “Man, I’m not the same player anymore.”

Unc: The Last Season and Finding Peace

I think the hardest part was just acknowledging that it was time. In my last season, I still put up decent numbers, but I wasn’t dominating anymore. I had 770 yards and 8 touchdowns, and if you compare that to the other tight ends, I was still up there in the rankings—but I knew. I wasn’t making the plays I used to make. I wasn’t running through tackles the way I did in my prime. It wasn’t about the stats anymore, though. It was about knowing in my heart that I wasn’t going to have that consistent performance I once had.

It was a good year, though. I went out with a bang, had a few big games, but when you start to feel like the team doesn’t rely on you the same way, you know it’s time to transition. When I saw Rod start becoming the focal point of the offense, I realized it was a sign.

Ocho: Acceptance and Moving Forward

There’s something freeing about finally accepting that your playing days are over. When I retired, I knew I could still play if I wanted to, but the mental and physical toll had built up. Your body just can’t do it forever. But here’s the thing—just because it’s time to retire from football doesn’t mean you’re done. It doesn’t mean you can’t still be great in other areas of your life.

When I retired, I was at peace. Yeah, it hurt a little bit—no one wants to admit that they’re not the same player they were. But it was the right time. I remember getting that final call, and I could’ve tried to push it, try to get another year or two out of it, but deep down, I knew it was over. And that was okay. Life doesn’t stop just because your football career does.

Unc: The Transition

And that’s something else we talked about—what comes after the game. It’s tough transitioning away from something that’s been a huge part of your life. Football was everything for so long, but then you have to find new passions, new challenges. It’s not easy, but it’s necessary.

For me, I’ve been able to pour my energy into coaching, mentoring, and sharing what I’ve learned with younger athletes. You gotta give back. It’s important to stay connected with the game, but also to realize that there’s more out there. Life after football is just as important as your time on the field.

Ocho: Final Thoughts

Yeah, it’s tough. It’s tough to walk away from the game. But one thing I learned is that you have to be honest with yourself. You have to acknowledge when the game is taking more from you than you can give. And that’s not a bad thing. It’s just part of the cycle. You can’t play forever, but you can still be a part of the game in other ways.

So for those of you out there still playing, take care of your body, take care of your mind, and when that time comes, you’ll know. And you’ll know it’s okay. It’s all about leaving the game on your terms, with your head held high.

That’s it for today’s Nightcap, folks. We’ve talked about retirement, we’ve talked about transition, and we’ve talked about the real struggles that come with stepping away from the game. If you liked this episode, don’t forget to hit that subscribe button—keep rocking with us as we keep bringing the real talk. You don’t want to miss what’s coming next.